by Miki Kashtan
Seriously, don't you wonder if anything can be written about this
topic that hasn't already been said many times over? I did, too, until I
encountered Nonviolent Communication while I was in graduate school
pursuing a doctoral degree in sociology. I wasn't studying good and
evil, at least I didn't think I was. I had no idea, at the time, that my
interest in the relationship between reason and emotion was intertwined
with the deepest and most perennial questions of human nature, hence
with matters of good and evil which I had set aside for years.
I
never liked the Medieval belief that human beings are innately evil,
bad, or sinful, because I intuitively couldn't fathom why and how nature
would give rise to sinful creatures. I also didn't ever find more
satisfaction in the modern notions of "evil" such as the "selfish gene"
evolutionary theory or the Freudian notions of an innate aggressive
drive. Proponents of all such theories are hard-pressed to explain acts
of true kindness, especially in the face of potential consequences, such
as those who saved Jews during the Holocaust at risk to their own
lives.