tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post9192174657859955109..comments2023-03-26T01:02:06.760-07:00Comments on The Fearless Heart: When Others Judge UsMiki Kashtanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00907977416574801559noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-13966841719978005522013-07-04T05:43:49.613-07:002013-07-04T05:43:49.613-07:00I have come to develop a few attitudes worth menti...I have come to develop a few attitudes worth mentioning on this important and universal subject. As a preface to the descriptions, I think we might all acknowledge that in our world of duality (yin/yang), praise and blame are intrinsically and inextricably linked. The story we typically learn early on is that we should try our best to seek and maximize the praise we receive while fearing and Ron Greensteinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-11847629502261406412013-07-04T02:16:26.252-07:002013-07-04T02:16:26.252-07:00Exquisitely beautiful, heartful and touching.Exquisitely beautiful, heartful and touching.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-80461236297838952542013-07-03T23:01:37.481-07:002013-07-03T23:01:37.481-07:00I really appreciate how you brought in the link be...I really appreciate how you brought in the link between adult choices and beliefs and our experience as infants. When I was in a time of asking, "what is shame anyway? And why is lack of connection so threatening?" I came to the conclusion that shame is a sense of having no justified place in the human family. Because as infants, we are utterly dependent on SOMEONE seeing our value sarahnoreply@blogger.com