tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post333425766889848011..comments2023-03-26T01:02:06.760-07:00Comments on The Fearless Heart: Myths of Power-With: # 4 - When Connection Trumps Everything Miki Kashtanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00907977416574801559noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-45951358323468083702013-06-01T14:32:35.030-07:002013-06-01T14:32:35.030-07:00"These are delicate moments for a facilitator..."These are delicate moments for a facilitator or a group to navigate, moments in which nothing is perfect, and we are looking for the optimal way to balance many needs: for effectiveness in utilizing group resources, integrity in how people are held and power is used, care for everyone present, and learning for the group, to name only a few that may be present."<br /><br />I think the Jestewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08974057536001362182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-43750329726510343202013-06-01T11:29:36.099-07:002013-06-01T11:29:36.099-07:00"Mixing up the kind of connection that suppor..."Mixing up the kind of connection that supports healing with the kind of connection that supports trust and effectiveness, is likely to lead to disillusionment – with people, with groups, with decision-making, or with NVC."<br /><br />This is a very clear and concise description of the roots of the problem. I think another corollary to this is mixing up empathic reflection for the Jestewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08974057536001362182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-1607969302583206782013-05-31T17:36:26.617-07:002013-05-31T17:36:26.617-07:00It's Samuel and Pearl Oliner: The Altruistic P...It's Samuel and Pearl Oliner: The Altruistic Personality<br /><br />The other difference is that they were raised in non-punitive households.Miki Kashtanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00907977416574801559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-2111426927874471222013-05-31T15:03:55.910-07:002013-05-31T15:03:55.910-07:00Miki, several years ago I took one of your classes...Miki, several years ago I took one of your classes where you mentioned that a study was done to better understand why in WW2 certain Germans had agreed to protect Jews. The finding of the study had been surprising aka the major difference is: someone asked them. Do you know where I can find the study or more about it aka what journal, who ran it, where I can read it? thanks! Katia Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com