tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post4758545680136249471..comments2023-03-26T01:02:06.760-07:00Comments on The Fearless Heart: Some Thoughts about TrustMiki Kashtanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00907977416574801559noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-18971068824465006262012-09-06T07:36:43.035-07:002012-09-06T07:36:43.035-07:00Miki, your essays continue to challenge readers to...Miki, your essays continue to challenge readers to face themselves and reality. These thoughts on trust you have shared are an invitation to experiment outside conventional attitudes. I am very keen on approaching life through the means of inner attitude changes rather than the seemingly endless process of analysis and resolution of past and present difficult situations while maintaining the sameRon Greensteinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-24235099202769735862012-09-02T06:28:18.926-07:002012-09-02T06:28:18.926-07:00As you discuss it the link between trusting and sa...As you discuss it the link between trusting and safety is so apparent,yet, until this moment I had not linked them. I am one who's fight, flight, freeze response is triggered very easily. The stategies I've developed to protect myself are the same strategies that interfere with connection. The mutuality of distrust/unsafety had never occurred to me. I notice my initial response to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-36591825405644477822012-09-01T23:08:26.603-07:002012-09-01T23:08:26.603-07:00I really appreciate the part about it being about ...I really appreciate the part about it being about one's "own capacity to love the person who mistrusts me" -- because it is then about self-responsibility and love, not about blame.<br /><br />I too have been thinking about how when someone else doesn't trust me, I don't trust them, and vice versa. It then seemed to me that we were both in a state of forgetting that trust Jean Mcnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754739242520868315.post-52978104121712887022012-09-01T08:11:34.527-07:002012-09-01T08:11:34.527-07:00Hello Miki and blog readers:
I found it interesti...Hello Miki and blog readers:<br /><br />I found it interesting that two of my favorite bloggers, Miki and Dave Pollard, both posted entries on trust this week. Mr. Pollard's approach is more about the psysio-/psychological dynamics of trust -- he doesn't bring Miki's giraffe-ness to the issue.<br /><br />I intend to read them both when time allows and I thought readers of this blog Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05283305091014510305noreply@blogger.com